10 signs that the relationship needs to end!

2018-02-26 14:39

10 signs that the relationship needs to end!
If in your relationship there are at least a few of these symptoms — it’s time to think seriously!

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1. You don’t feel approval from the partner or that he appreciates you

Being with someone in a relationship, there is no hope that they will give you the life and the feeling of self-worth or acceptance that you need. But this does not mean that your significant other should not give you a sense of importance. The task of your partner to make sure you feel your value and importance to relationships.

2. You have so many relationship fights that you are emotionally able to cope with them

A big part of any relationship consists of constant bickering and disagreements. It is in order. In the end, we are all human and each of us has their own point of view and their vision of the world. And only a matter of time when we join with someone in a conflict about something. But the essence of the relationship lies in the fact that the same argument they should not be repeated again and again. If a couple is unable to agree or compromise on some issue, this may indicate a fundamental incompatibility of partners.

3. Your needs and expectations from a relationship are far from satisfaction

Engaging with someone, a person always has some expectations from them and certain standards for what they should be. This behavior is absolutely normal and even encouraged. Only need to share all these expectations, limits and standards with your partner to make sure that you will make each other happier. If such needs do not coincide with the needs of your second half, then with a partner, insufficient efforts.

4. You are constantly talking about the need for change, but in the end nothing changes

This is when the broken promises follow one another. Someone of you does something wrong, the second is angry, you begin to quarrel, ask forgiveness, promise to be better, but then everything repeated again. In healthy relationships partners constantly evolving and learning from their mistakes. If someone is unable to keep his promise and do become better, the relationship is doomed to failure.

5. You don’t know how to return to the relationship in the right direction

Many relationships go through challenges and obstacles. This is normal. But it is abnormal when people don’t know how to solve these problems. Usually the couple is always a idea how to fix everything that went wrong. But as soon as the partners are in deadlock, their relationship begins to threaten mortal danger.

6. You continue to invest in the relationship, but as before nothing in return

Balance is an integral part of a healthy relationship. You have to be willing to invest in them as much from them. Remember that relationship is a game for two, and the two of you emotionally invest yourself in your General business. And any violation of this balance can cause serious failure in the relationship.

7. You are the only one compromising in your relationship

There are trade-offs even the most strong and happy relationships. No one partner should not dominate over the other, hence the importance of compromise. The strongest relationships always based on mutual concessions.

8. Your partner causes you frustration and anger

A serious sign that you are clinging to relationships that have outlived their usefulness, is when your partner begins to cause you displeasure and anger. It is natural in some situations to experience disappointment or irritation because of the behavior of your partner. But if it is a deep anger and hatred and they are mutual, then that’s another story.

9. You find it hard to imagine the future of your relationship

Part of the desire to keep your relationship as long as possible is to plan your future together. We are talking about that you can assess your own goals and how they aligned with the goals of your partner. But if you don’t see you two together after some time, so the end of your relationship is near.

10. Through your relationship you both have ceased to grow and develop as a person.

Be in relationship does not mean you must abandon your “I”. On the contrary, relationships are designed to motivate and inspire people to be better. And if you think that your relationship hold you back, then they only hurt.