14 habits of people who incredibly like others

2017-12-23 13:47

14 habits of people who incredibly like others
Why some people like without making any effort? And others, despite our efforts, we cannot win the favor of others

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Napoleon hill, author of the popular bestseller “Think and grow rich”, in one of his essays has described the habits of the people who just love the surrounding.

As an example of such a prominent person the hill turned to the personality of Charles Schwab, industrial magnate in the production of steel. Thanks to its outstanding personality, Schwab was able to make a path from simple laborers to Manager with an annual salary in the $ 75,000 and regular bonuses in the form of the sums with six zeros (astronomical numbers for the time).

Boss Schwab, the famous entrepreneur Andrew Carnegie, spoke on the work of his subordinate: “the Annual salary paid to Schwab for the work he carried out himself and the millions in bonuses were a reward for what Schwab, thanks to its outstanding personality, forced to do others.”

Here is a list of 14 habits, described by hill enjoyed by people with outstanding personal qualities that make others to follow us:

1. They create a positive mental attitude and charge them with others

It is always easier to be a cynic and a pessimist. But such an attitude is not easy to achieve success and gain good reputation. But a positive attitude, on the contrary, significantly contributes to the achievement of these goals.

2. They always talk in a respectful, friendly tone

Such men are always sure of what they say. Therefore, their speech is calm and conscious, which gives it a warm sound.

3. They listen carefully to their interlocutors

Communication in arrogant instructive manner is a great way to satisfy one’s own ego, but it is a disastrous path for those who want to please their interlocutors and to establish friendly relations.

4. They are able to maintain composure in any situation

Emotional reaction, both positive and negative, can create about a person bad impression. Remember that silence can often be much more efficient to convey information to the interlocutor, rather than full of negative emotion words.

5. They are quiet

The relevance of words and actions is one of the most important qualities that people love and respect others.

6. They are unbiased and open

People, closed to new ideas and supportive relationships exclusively with like-minded people, missing the opportunity to not only personal development, but also an opportunity for professional growth.

7. They smile, talking with others

Hill argues that the most expensive property of the American President Franklin Roosevelt was his gorgeous million-dollar smile. She involuntarily forced his interlocutors to be more open while chatting.

8. They know that it is not necessary to hear all your thoughts

Such people know that it is not necessary to offend people, expressing their thoughts even if these thoughts and truthful.

9. They do not like to procrastinate

Procrastination is an indication that you are afraid to act. Which in turn is an indicator of your lack of effectiveness.

10. They commit at least one act of kindness daily

They help others without expecting anything in return.

11. They do not complain about setbacks, they extract lessons from them

People admire those who are able to take advantage of and to survive failures. Successful people are thankful for a portion of the wisdom of life, which would not come to him if they never had to deal with failure.

12. They treat your companion as if it were the most important person in the world

The most favorite other people use communication as a way to learn all of the interlocutor, so they give him a chance.

13. They know how sincerely, without flattery praise of others

They don’t miss the opportunity to praise others, but do it only when really deserved praise.

14. They have people whose opinion about their own shortcomings, they listen

Successful people do not pretend to please others. They like the other what is really. One of their secrets is that they constantly work on their behavior and reputation. And the presence of a person pointing to their weaknesses, helping them continuously to continue the process of personal growth.