5 reasons why women fantasize about rape

2018-02-10 21:35

5 reasons why women fantasize about rape
Many women secretly dream about hard sex or even rape. According to sexologists, it is linked to this erotic fantasy about 80% of the fairer sex.

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Actually it is not that women want to meet a rapist in real life, but only about the role play – sex in the form of violence, reports Rus.Media. Few thoughts when it is dirty mentally unstable type in a dark room. Usually in the female fantasy is inflated tanned and handsome, who at the sight of such unearthly beauty did not cope with their sexual desires, passionately tore off ladies clothes and penetrated her. And as soon as he came to himself and realized what he did, immediately offered a diamond ring, dinner on a private yacht, a weekend in Paris and a hand with a heart (underline). Where women have such fantasies – explained by psychologists.

To get rid of feelings of guilt. Often girls who dream about the rape, was brought up in rigor. Parents taught them that sex is dirty and obscene activity and good girls don’t, forbidden to communicate with boys, to look sexy and wear makeup. They secretly want to “run amuck” and violate the parental taboo. And to not feel guilty for what he did, simply shift it to another. They say, “not my fault, he came.”

Stockholm syndrome. So in psychology is called unilateral or mutual sympathy arising between the victim and the aggressor. The reason for this phenomenon is usually complexes, which arose from the sense of “nedolyublennosti” parents in adolescence and the lack of male attention in her maiden name. This kind of desire to experience the inevitable karmic feeling of love, from which no escape. In this case, in his fantasies, the girl is beautiful rapist, who could not resist and did “it”. Then maybe even put in jail. And when he was alone, rejected by society, she began to visit him and write him letters, and then he got out of prison and realized that she was the love of his life, married her, they had kids and lived happily ever after. Only these fantasies have nothing to do with reality, because in fact, live happily ever after with a rapist will not work.

The desire to be defenseless. Psychologists say that the defenseless people during sex, the higher sexual arousal. That is why it is a popular role playing with handcuffs, bondage, etc. Excites the feeling that you can not influence the situation, being completely under the control of the partner. This cause usually occurs in women perfectionistic, the girls had been trained from childhood to do everything perfectly. In adult life they also put on yourself, build a career, make a successful business and they want to be at least in bed, someone decided everything for them.

Basic instinct. Look at how mating in nature. The female runs and the male catches and the one who will be the fastest, agile and strong, and to get this prize. After all, this male can give strong offspring. Natural selection. Because people, even the smart and intelligent is also a bit of a beast.

The production of adrenaline. Have you ever had sex after endured danger, such as skydiving or accident? Experience the unique. And all this is because of the release of a stress hormone adrenaline in the blood. A sense of fear, danger adds to the severity of sexual sensations. Just like to add that reality has nothing to do with fantasies, and rape is a psychological trauma for a lifetime, to recover from which is far from over. Better hard sex will only remain a subject for your partner role-playing and erotic fantasies. Take care!