8 reasons to refuse the guy in sex

2018-03-12 08:43

8 reasons to refuse the guy in sex
Sometimes it’s better to slow down and hold off on sex. We know as many as 8 reasons to refuse sex.

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When the girl refuses sex and this is normal, reports Rus.Media

He’s not treating you seriously

He tells you that you’re amazing, so beautiful, smart and interesting girl. Him no one was as good as you. There is only one caveat: maybe in all your positive qualities, this guy just doesn’t want to burden yourself with the bonds of a serious relationship? They say that you’re wonderful, I really want you, but I don’t know what happens. Most likely, nothing will come of it, if he couldn’t decide until now. Be on the lookout!

You will never see it again

The first and main reason is not to hurry with the translation relations on a new sex level sounds like it. “How many great love stories began with sex on the first date! It is only necessary to remember,” said Carrie Bradshaw was right. Therefore, to refuse a man in sex on the first date? Sleeping with him too early, you risk never gets to see. Your self-esteem will quickly fly down, and you will first get upset, then angry, saying, he wanted, gone where? Man is by nature a hunter, having caught the victim, he immediately loses interest in her. That’s why don’t hurry: during the “postponement” of the first sex he will have feelings for you, which can turn into a long and serious relationship. Anyway, you better get to know him.

You become in his eyes an available sex object

In his notebook already have a couple of numbers of girls with whom you can have sex without any relationship, dinners and breakfasts. Excessive availability is pleasing to him only during sex, and then reduce your level in the eyes. Men just say they prefer the depraved and affordable. For a serious relationship, they still choose a more modest and discreet ladies, who have managed to be patient and opened his Superliga later.

You’re very young

An important reason to refuse sex at your age. Under the influence of stereotypes, very young girls sleep around not because love, but because “youth, sowing some wild oats”, “to gain experience”, “something to tell the grandchildren” and so on. A grain of truth in it, maybe there is, but it happens that you agree to have sex, because you bet a friend who will take this beauty to bed. Don’t rush: think about whether you really want this man and you won’t regret.

You don’t realize the danger

You don’t know. One or two dates give a General idea of the man, but nobody can guarantee that he is not a maniac or has AIDS. It is better to wait to have sex, which, as the work is not a wolf in the forest will not escape. But you can be sure that the person you’re going to engage in physical intimacy, physically and emotionally.

You just want sex

We differ from animals is the ability to control their desires. Probably to do with sex, just to satisfy and calm his lust, as something not human. Especially that there are many ways and means of Masturbation. Moreover, Masturbation is not just an act of self-love, but a good reason to explore your sexuality and become better acquainted with your own body.

You think he’s gonna be otherwise

Big feet, long and thick fingers not necessarily indicative of a big dick. The man who carelessly eats, not necessarily passionate in bed, and a man that could dance might not be able to perform all these pas in your bed. Believing in folk superstitions and sleeping with him just out of interest, you may be disappointed because of unfulfilled expectations. And it you want?

You just broke up with her husband

Sex for the joy of the sorrows after breakup phenomenon is frequent, but not so effective. Problems that sex does not solve, does not bring pleasure, because you mentally, with heart and soul, still with the previous partner. And moral feelings of after such contact is so-so. To survive the breakup better in the company of a good movie than with the unfamiliar man. So his recent divorce is a good enough reason to refuse sex.