Teens and sex: what you need to explain to the girls?

2017-10-18 17:46

Teens and sex: what you need to explain to the girls?
How much would a parent not protecting their child, sooner or later it will go on a first date, I’ll try the alcohol and first time to have sex.

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Especially difficult for both parents and Teens are talking about sex. Parents are often silent about it, and the child thinks that this topic is taboo. It should not be. It is better that the child learned about sex and all the associated risks from parents, not from the same inexperienced friends or from the Internet.

This will help to protect the child from violence, because the problem in our society system. All parents need to understand that all ambiguous. The girls need to be secure from violence, and boys need to talk about how not to become a rapist.

Let’s find out what you need to talk to a girl:

1. Tell the girl that the rapists – this is not some mythical creature, and very real people. That’s not necessarily a suspicious stranger. A rapist can be a person the girl trusts. You should always be careful, she should understand that. And to always inform parents about where she is.

2. Tell daughter about some pewnew a message that would mean that she needs help. This will help establish trust between you and will allow you to quickly throw the child to help.

3. Teach your daughter firmly and clearly denied in situations where it achieve. She should be able to say “no” clearly, loudly and without a smile. Courtesy is useless.

4. Explain how the behavior of some guys. No, no need to say that all men are dangerous and terrible. She needs to understand that some guys believe that a girl need to persuade and denial can only annoy. In such cases, it should be a rule “No. Go. Tell ” from the beginning we need to say loud and clear “no” in response to harassment. “Go” means to depart immediately from that person, not try to convince or argue. And “tell” is that it is right to say about what happens to someone, at least second, but best for adults – parents “. This will help to protect the child from violence.

5. Tell your daughter that a relationship in which it is trying to control or humiliate an unhealthy relationship. With a guy to pursue a relationship, because what at first manifests as jealousy can turn into violence.

6. Ask daughter to beware of drunken or inappropriate people to be in danger.

7. Explain to the girl that she should listen to yourself and if she’s uncomfortable, she can safely go. She really shouldn’t push yourself for something just out of solidarity or unwillingness to be like everyone else.

8. Teach your daughter to protect herself. Take self-defense courses. Such a skill would not be amiss.

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