Reasons to become a lover

2018-01-31 18:43

Reasons to become a lover
The world belongs to the mistress is ambiguous: some worship them, others despise it, and others try not to notice.

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Whatever camp you may belong, to listen to the views of women in the role of mistresses turned out to be useful. Suddenly this will allow you to look at them in new ways?

“Remember that I’m a woman»

“I recently had a rather bad breakup with a man and now is not ready to build any relationship. But as you know, without the male attention a woman languishes and fades, so I do not deny myself the pleasure to be surrounded by fans.

One of them, the most persistent and at the same time married, became a leader and now periodically greets me from work, invites to dinners and candles. This allows me not to forget that I’m a woman and that I am worthy of love. I don’t see this relationship prospects, but I think that as a temporary measure, this option can be considered “. Maria, 27

«Own master»

“In 27 years I realized that it was time to have a baby. A man, at that time I was not, but was a great friend with whom we occasionally have sex. His name was Vadim, he had a family, so we met not often, but every date we both had delivered a lot of pleasure. I decided that he is the best candidate for the role of the father of my unborn child.

When Jeff found out about the pregnancy, said that it is not ready to change something in his life-he already has son, wife and in the second set he doesn’t need. I replied that I was not going to ask to marry, and that he only helps me to fulfill my biological program. He calmed down and said that he would take care of everything related to finances. Until the moment when Dasha was born, I already had an apartment, medical insurance (for themselves and for the child) and complete confidence that I will provide.

Now, Vadim, as before, continue to meet. This option suits everyone: the child understands that he has a father, the father is not worried that he hurt to live the usual life, and I am pleased that I don’t need to hysterically look for work and give the girl nanny. In short, I am my own person and I’m very glad that it happened that way “. Elena, 32 years

“Good for me!»

“I love being a mistress. I see adultery as the ideal form of relations between men and women. After all, they don’t overshadow any domestic squabbles, no-wash socks, nor obligatory cooking dinner … It’s like a marriage, from which removed all the unnecessary things we all spend time together, make love, travel, but do not lose individuality or pricesum each other.

I look at couples and I is scary how much people change family life! They are closed in their little world, becoming interested in some small issues, fight over stupid things and fighting for the lead. Don’t want to become their slender ranks! Even if it sounds selfish, but I want to get flowers and gifts, and the wives are let family squabbles, budget planning and the endless washing and cooking “. Faith, 26 years.

“I do not have before him any obligations»

“Don’t like it when I have some obligations. I’m not sure that love is one for life, and I don’t think I can ever marry and be faithful to his faithful. Every time I start Dating a man, you know that regular sex with one partner is absolutely not for me. Just a couple of months I’m starting to want something new, I go on about my weakness, and men mostly put up with it not ready.

But I found a way out! My current husband calmly looks at all of my adventures that happen on the side. And all because he leads a similar lifestyle. He is married, but the marriage does not give him the feeling of freedom and permissiveness, so he occasionally gets on the side that give it the necessary range of feelings and sensations. So he understands me and my desires “. Alina, 23 years.

“Otherwise it is impossible»

“Eleven years I’m Dating a married man. During this time I have ceased to perceive their situation as unusual or beyond the scope of decency. I believe that in our case simply could not be otherwise: we met six weeks before his wedding, and he believed that he could not abandon his pregnant fiancée at the altar. We are madly in love, but he is forced to live for two families, because he can’t leave his wife and daughter, which, in fact, innocent.

At first I thought the world turned upside down: I always dreamed of a normal strong family and got the most warped version of it. Cheating has always been for me a terrible sin, but if had to choose between love and principles, I chose to abandon the last.” Tatiana, 32 years.

“I found love and comfort»

“I recently met a real Man. Such has been waiting for all my life. He is strong and smart and behave like Prince charming I had dreamed of. Unfortunately, in my dreams, I did not realize one thing – that my hero can be married.

From the first meeting he began to care about me. I’ve never felt so loved and everyone is happy. We are perfect for each other in bed, and together we have so much fun. We can discuss everything and anything from each other do not hide. The most important thing – I don’t feel that he’s married and we see each other at any time, and he never come nervous texts, after which he jumped up and ran out the door. His wife is constantly on the move, rarely at home, so no problem with his “double” life there.

Recently he asked me to move closer to his work so we could see more of each other, and, of course, I refused, especially because it is in the center of the city. Beyond that, I don’t know, but today suits me completely: I love a wonderful man, living a very comfortable life and I hope that in future everything will be resolved “. Margarita, 25 years.

“Played a live research interest»

“Husband cheated on me. I thought I will not survive this betrayal, but after some time gradually began to recover. I had admirers, and among them was a guy who had long lived with his girlfriend. I looked at him and realized that I wanted to try yourself in the role of mistress. I want to understand what it’s like to sleep and meet with a man who doesn’t belong to you. Me flinch lively research interest, laced with a good portion of revenge: I wanted other women also suffered from the fact that in the life of their husband had another.
It was a very whirlwind romance. I don’t know what it was more revenge or true passion. He lied to his wife that he was forced to stay on the job and at that time lay in my bed. I reveled in the triumph and seemed to wash away the hurt and pain I caused my ex with his new girlfriend.

It is logical that this relationship has exhausted itself very quickly. When I got fed up with feeling their own power, this particular man ceased to interest me. Now it seems to me that at that moment my behavior was too hard, but I realized that I will never lover. And you know why? Because in this relationship there is shame, but not for himself, but for her husband, who is deliberately deceiving the other, perhaps even unfamiliar to you as a woman who is waiting for him and loves you.” Oksana, 25 years.