Girlfriend? 6 types of friends with whom it is better not to communicate

2018-02-05 14:27

Girlfriend? 6 types of friends with whom it is better not to communicate
Envious, always unhappy, unable to be happy for you, you strive to surpass… This is not friendship, and by people better stay away.

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The beginning of the year is a good opportunity to think about the changes to become the new best version of myself. But some goals are not enough. It is important to surround yourself with people that make life beautiful, and to let go of those who annoys and devastates you. I guess in life there are people whom you have outgrown. Spend this year healthy and happy company. Leave past friends like that, if you have them.

1. A FRIEND WHO IS NOT HAPPY FOR YOU

You met a man that is ready to go on a second date, or received a substantial bonus at work. You in the seventh heaven, and a friend under a cloud. Maybe it’s because of envy or insecurity. She chooses to ignore your success, instead be happy and celebrate it with you. Better share your joy with those who care about you.

2. A FRIEND WHO MAKES QUESTIONABLE COMPLIMENTS

It articulates thoughts that I do not understand, is that a compliment or an insult. For example, says that he would like to live your life, because you have no real responsibilities and duties. Lee says, how beautiful is your outfit from afar. All compliments start with cute phrases, but over negative. The world is full of critics. It is not necessary to invest energy in a relationship with a friend that is showing passive aggression.

3. A FRIEND WHO IS ALWAYS DETERMINED IN THE NEGATIVE

It is not only good for you, it is in principle not happy with anything. I bought a dress with 50% discount? I guess it will sit. Found a new apartment? But in this neighborhood, so noisy. What would not be discussed, she always has a negative opinion on this matter. Maybe she really sees the world as an abyss of negative, but you should not experience this effect for yourself.

4. A FRIEND WHO CONSTANTLY BREAKS PLANS

She calls five minutes before the scheduled dinner and says she still shops. Cancel a campaign for a concert, about which you dreamed, the night before. Of course, sometimes life intervenes in the plans — there’s nothing you can do. But to ignore obligations to others and behave as they please is another matter. Remember how little free time you have. Dedicate his friends, who treat him with respect.

5. A FRIEND WHO COMPETES WITH YOU

The success of a friend can be the motivation to achieve your goals, but the rivalry should not be the basis of relations. Perhaps she is keeping score. Eat which to be proud? She was able to cook it a year ago. I bought shoes that have long been collected? She has such two pairs. Such relationships are doomed. It’s nice to chat with people who wish you the best, and do not try to assert themselves at your expense.

6. A FRIEND HAVE YOU LOST THE CLOSENESS

This loss is the hardest to take. Your life changed and you changed with them. If you tried to reestablish contact but to no avail, it is logical to let go of the relationship. Maybe she still prefers to date men who treat her like. Maybe last year it was replaced already three cities and almost does not respond to your messages. Whatever happens, not everyone will retain their role throughout your life. This relationship is proof of that.