Learn about the key attributes of a healthy sex life!

2018-02-27 20:18

Learn about the key attributes of a healthy sex life!
The concept of norms of sexual life is very relative. After all, what is absolutely normal for one person may not suit or be appropriate for another.

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While watching sex scenes in movies, hear stories of friends about their personal lives, we can begin to question if everything with us is fine. There are simple criteria by which to judge, reports Rus.Media.

You love your body

As shown by research scientists from the University of Texas, the higher the level of acceptance of my body, the higher the satisfaction with sex. It is very simple to explain if, instead of trying to pleasure you worried” about extra pounds on the hips or not enough flat stomach – it poisons your sex. Increase self-esteem, and help to leave during sex the sensations, not experiences of sport and moderate physical activity, and the development of sensibility through the study and acceptance of themselves, a visit to body oriented psychotherapy, and also treatments deliver bodily pleasure such as a massage or a SPA.

Are you talking about sex with your partner

No one, even the most advanced guru of sex, you will not be able to guess your thoughts and desires. Therefore, to say that, “what is good and what is bad” in a couple just need. Tell us about what you want and understanding listen to the partner, show tact even if his fantasies seem crazy and you’re not ready to implement it. It also is criterion of normal, healthy relationships.

Orgasm is not the most important

To orgasm during sex – it’s great. But to do this challenge and to turn sex into a race for survival – is not reasonable. Rejoice in the process itself, to enjoy it and orgasm will be a nice bonus.

Sex does not bring pain

During sex should not be painful and unpleasant sensations. If they occur, try to change position, or use oil. These simple steps don’t work? Do not suffer. Be sure to consult your doctor.

You are not afraid of pauses

In a couple’s life may come a time when sex doesn’t happen as often as I would like: a busy, poor health, etc. You live people, not sex machines. Life is getting better, and going back to sex.

You don’t have sex out of obligation

Very bad idea to have sex out of obligation, pity, use it as a means of manipulation. Sex should be fun for both partners – it is an indisputable truth. Your partner feels when you lay a log and wait, when all this is over, or imitate an orgasm and believe me it is not going to benefit your relationship. Therefore, it is better to warn him that you’re a bit out of shape, ready to join in the love game, but don’t know will start. If it doesn’t happen too often, your partner will understand.

You understand that this may not be always passionately

Good sex is different – rude and gentle, passionate and calm, fast and slow. It all depends on your mood. And the screaming, groaning and scratching the back claws leave for movies.