Scientists have found that you get when you throw a girl
2017-11-12 17:10
Scientists have found that you get when you throw a girl
Scientific substantiation of the deep despair that has consumed you after your girlfriend left you.
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You probably noticed that some breakups are easy, while others rip out your heart, twist the soul, and other organs finish without a hint of goodwill, reports Rus.Media. It is, of course, about the separation, the initiator of which is not you and the girl. (When the initiator you’re feeling after a breakup is usually a relief.)
Scientists at the Stanford Department of psychology have finally found the explanation of the curious phenomenon of human nature. To do this they had to run for 891 a study participant, slipping tests on the theme of parting.
And that’s what it became. It turns out that the smaller the separation is related to our personality, the less it is painful. For example, if a girl tells you: “I’m moving to the other end of the city, from there to ride with three transfers, well, you know…” — you’re not too offended. Because it’s not you, it’s circumstances.
So easily we are going through a breakup, if we refuse the girl, as we always suspected, not very well, we know, does not share our interests and never understood our habit of speaking about himself in the plural.
The most painful blows we receive from the one who has always appreciated the ability of us to admire. If we felt that she understood us, shared our interests and our sense of humor, in this case, the breakup is going to be tragic for us. Because of the fact that she abandoned us, she has reduced our importance in their own eyes.