The quiet tragedy of our children, which no one says

2018-01-19 17:32

The quiet tragedy of our children, which no one says
The problems of children begin at home and can be there and settled.

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Parents should understand that only depends on them, what will their children grow up, reports Rus.Media.

However, modern children are deprived of a healthy childhood, they are in a terrible emotional state, writes a professional therapist Victoria Prada. As much as it pains us to admit it, in many cases it is we, parents, should do to help their children!

What’s the problem?

Modern children are denied the basics of a healthy childhood , but children have:

Abstract parents.

Parents who allow kids everything.

The feeling that they all have.

Unbalanced diet and insufficient sleep.

Sedentary home lifestyle.

Endless stimulation, technological fun, instant gratification.

Is it possible to raise a healthy generation in these patients conditions? Of course not!

Human nature is impossible to cheat: no parenting is not enough. As we can see, the consequences are terrible. For the loss of a normal childhood, children are paying the price with loss of emotional well-being.

What to do? If we want our children grew up happy and healthy, we need to Wake up and go back to the basics. It’s not too late!

What parents should do:

Set limits and remember that you are the child’s father, not his friend.

Provide children what they need, not what they want. Don’t be afraid to refuse the children if their desires differ from needs.

Feed healthy food and limit snacks.

Spend time in nature.

Every day make a family dinner with no electronics.

Playing table games.

Daily engage children in cases (to fold clothes, clean up toys, hang the Laundry, unpack, set the table, etc.).

Place your baby to sleep at the same time, don’t let to take to bed gadgets.

Teach children responsibility and independence. Don’t shield them from small failures. It teaches them to overcome life’s obstacles.

Do not stack and do not wear the baby backpack, not prenotice to school forgotten meals/homework, clean the banana for 5 yrs. Teach them to do it all.

Teach patience and give the opportunity to freely spend time to have a child had the opportunity to get bored and exercise their creative impulses.

Do not surround a child’s constant entertainment.

Do not push the technique as a cure for boredom.

Don’t encourage the use of gadgets for a meal, in the car, in a restaurant, in the store. Let the mind of a child learning to self-disperse “Tosca”.

Be emotionally available, teach children social skills.

Do not be distracted by the phone, communicating with your child.

Teach your kid to cope with anger and frustration.

Learn to greet, to give, to share, to sympathize, to behave at table and in conversation.

Maintain emotional communication: smile, kiss tickling the baby, read to him, dance, jump and play with her!

We have to change their children, or get an entire generation on tablets! It’s not too late, but time is running short.