What happened to the flirting, or why men rarely play women

2018-03-04 23:31

What happened to the flirting, or why men rarely play women
Why should I have to stand on tiptoe?

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Chivalry changes from century to century. When pressed to the lips of the lost lady’s handkerchief was considered a gesture of defiant and outspoken. Now, as flirting can send you a pornographic picture, and thanks, and even with his participation.

But the fact is that flirting is not at all. No…..

I know for many the word “courtship” seems outdated and haberdashery, but it quite accurately describes the beginning of the process that leads to mating. A male courting a female in a circle, post tail, sings songs and brings small gifts – a worm, a mouse, flowers and chocolates. They walk a lot together, she slowly gets used to his physical presence, as he shows little care about her.

All this care is intended to inform her that he is safe and comfortable. And if it becomes favorable to him, he promises to protect her for a long time, perhaps always.

Of course, modern people do not think so primitively, but in General women view courtship as a kind of letter of guarantee: I’m interested in you, ready for you to try to make some actions and even insanity of love come with me, it will be good I promise. She would think-think, and go, and there is as lucky.
And then suddenly it turns out that among the women is gradually growing trend: they are tired, they don’t want.

No, not sex, but this whole thing is to wear hearts, candy, tame, promise and persuade. The reason I have met different.

Pikaparkki. British scientists have found that a woman decides to have sex very quickly. I heard about the time from twenty seconds to twenty minutes – the sources differ, probably depends on the amount of alcohol or day of the week (Friday probably). But obviously not twenty days, and therefore the hunters to quick rolls in the hay came to the conclusion that gallantry can not be spent.

Once you’ve decided, then what spears to break and money to spend – or give or not.

Here I strange Association I remember the anecdote about Lord God: “you Idiot, you should at least a lottery ticket bought”. But to convince the charge a more expensive, if the world will be less stupid tackles and provided multi-day sieges, the world will benefit.

But it is sad when a smart man is also out of the game. “Why should I have to stand on tiptoe? – said one of them. Just for the sake of sex artificially raise the profile of this woman in my life, to give advances, cunning to engage in a relationship – and I’m not going to lie to her. I want to offer partnerships, so on that is really capable of. Sweet and caring, as is usually sweet and caring, and if you tie and love, I’ll be more careful. But so far I can only give it.”

Three times I opened my mouth to argue. Well, something like that if you put a rat two cells, it will go to the one where there’s cheese … But he doesn’t want a rat, doesn’t want a cage.
Then he’s right, I guess. I’m just terribly sorry that you are so smart and right run the risk of leaving no posterity – they’ll also see the same conscious girls, but they do not so much. But if you find each other, they will be happy.

I’ve heard the argument easier. If a woman does not automatically make direct and clear steps forward, it’s great cools. No, the instinct of the hunter somehow not waking up, but the ego tells us: if she expresses joy, so do not need.
Not to show obvious interest in communication – or is disrespectful, or a reflection of the current situation – not wanted, not liked.
In any case it is not necessary to jump out.

And last, the most honest (I like that) say that they are lazy. They usually are no longer twenty and even thirty, and closer to the fourth ten. They increasingly want to do the installation and from acquaintance to go directly to a quiet intimacy.

Their own statistics show that in the period of courtship one fuss, hassle empty and then respond – said nonsense, promised foolishly, lied for beauty, but she remembered.

How to make to “you are attractive, I’m damn attractive, why waste time”?

And I’m with them all in General agreement. And twenty seconds though (well two minutes), and about honesty in relationships, and politeness. And even too lazy to understand. But if things go terribly going to miss these ridiculous temptations and tissues in the mouth, and chocolates, and songs and clapping of wings. I’ll miss you, even by the mice, but who would have thought.