For you, parents! To stop a child’s tantrum can be one question

2017-10-04 08:54

For you, parents! To stop a child’s tantrum can be one question
There is no effective way to prevent a child’s tantrum for a second. No matter what happened.

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Maybe broke a favorite toy or mom told you not to eat the tenth piece of candy in a row. Whatever it is, don’t waste time on a long father’s tirades, which the child still will not hear. Instead, calmly and kindly ask the right question: “It’s a big, small or Sereda the problem?”

For example, the child was upset due to the fact that her friend did not want to share her toy. It is not necessary to wait until the baby cries out of control. Immediately ask the kid: “This is great, medium or little problem?”

And after his answer I offered to think together about how to fix this mess, no matter what scale it is. Maybe we should take another toy? Or offer to play together? The options are so many!

Child psychologists explain that there are three main reasons why such a seemingly simple question calms down the child:

The child sees what we accept and respect her feelings.

The question allows the child to stop, think and correctly assess any situation.

By asking this question, parents would suggest to the children themselves to figure out how to solve a problem that so upsets them.

Thus, by asking this question and talking quietly with the baby for a few minutes, you will save much more time and also gain his trust.